On Communication Culture

Of the few communication cultures I know of, I have to say that none are quite as complicated, inefficient and possibly absurd as that of the Chinese. In fact, it appears to be a well-meaning system corrupted and taken to extremes.

In its ideal form, the Chinese style of communication would lead to harmony in discussions. By minimizing conflict, things can get done better and faster without wasting energy on needless infighting. It also leaves everyone with better morale, having known that they have a group they can get along with.

Unfortunately, reality creates a bunch of frightened people doing their best to avoid becoming the nail that sticks out. Worse yet, such a system encourages group think and the propagation of bad ideas given the habitual way-giving. In fact, the whole communication system becomes a power play whereby members hold out on providing their opinions until someone is brave (or stupid) enough to blacken their names by speaking out.